Triggers are sexy.

Let’s not forget.
Triggers are sexy.
They are glamorous.
They are fiery.
They are blood-pumping
heart-racing
soul-shaking
good.

They remind us of what we know.
Don’t trust people like that.
You always fail.
You’ll never be good enough.
No one loves you.

They remind us of the beliefs inside of us
That we KNOW.

No, we don’t “want” them.
But they are safe.
They are easy.
They are stable.
They don’t change.

The more we can get past our ego that says “I don’t like this moment” or “this feeling”
The more we can realize how tempting these moments we say we don’t like
Really are.

Like the drink you know you shouldn’t have
Like the fling you know you shouldn’t do
Like the pull of a dirty, kinky, excitement

Triggers nag at us.
They tell us,
Don’t worry- I know how to pull us back to what we know.
We’ll be safe, if we just stay here.

In IDENTITY, part 2, we get to dive into this.

This is not about NOT getting triggered (because chances are- that’s a trigger too 🙊),
It’s about bringing the pull of the trigger into consciousness,
And learning to ride that roller coaster with grace
And perhaps even pleasure.

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